Sani 5th

 

Shani in 5 

Light on Marital Affairs 

I – Marital Discomfort, Separation & Divorce saravana Particular problems in marriage agreement related to graha placement Shani in 5 

• The strong 3rd drishti from Shani upon yuvati bhava = idleness and stagnation in marriage. 

• Boredom, unresolved frustration with negative habits of the spouse, and stubborn resistance to change while burdened with responsibilities for children. 

• Stays in the marriage "for the children". 

• Lord Shani is a force of orderliness therefore Shani alone will not enforce a divorce. But if other factors pressure a split, one of the long-term grievances of the abandoning partner may well be endurance of decades of "motion without progress" due to the stubborn resistance (Shani) of the spouse preventing any creative forward movement on matters of lingering disagreement. 

• Conflict resolution is stalled and a pattern of work exhaustion combined with a focus on the routines of child-raising and structured entertainments (such as family vacations, school performances, sports competitions etc) tend to replace intimate marital communication. This is a rather long-term problem and it may indeed persist until death do them 

Simha or Chandra lagna faces a special set of marriage challenges. kalatrakaraka Shukra + 7 th lord Shani are both enemies of lagna lord Surya. 

• The Simha native requires an inordinate amount of attention, however the spouse tends to be focused on the external network of social relationships to the exclusion (or so it feels) of the intimate needs of the native. 

• One may feel sidelined, or simply deprived of that focused, exclusive praising attention which Simha demands. Slightly more acute for the Simha-Chandra than for the Simha-lagna. 

• If Simha Chandra is in rasi lagna, the perceived shortfall of personal attention, regardless of abundant attention received from the public audience, lacking from the spouse may be too much for the native to bear in marriage and divorce may result